As an infant boy grows occasionally Daddy catches his son playing with a doll. I do not need to tell some of you, all hell breaks loose, especially if Daddy is heavily active in the macho scene.  He expresses anger at the child, the mother and everyone around at the time.  In most cases it is expressed in a subtle but firm manner.  Daddy takes the doll away stating in effect boys do not play with dolls.  Little Johnny has no real understanding of what took place over his playing with a doll, or why.  However, the incident and gestures pertaining to that incident registered in Johnny's subconscious mind.  Although little Johnny had the doll because his sister was playing with dolls, she does not understand what took place or why either.  However, the incident is now registered in her subconscious mind also.

Here is an unseen version of what happened.  An allegedly intelligent adult forced his image of manhood on two innocent little children.  Giving them an indication that the feeling of happy enjoyment is supposed to be different for boys.  Thereby attaching sexual gender to a sense of enjoyment.  At another point in time little Johnny will be told ... "Boys Don't Cry".

I remember a little boy playing with some other children at a park.  He came running over to his Dad crying.  Because he had been hit by a ball, he wanted the attention and affection of his father.

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